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What about HER needs ? And HER nervous system ? I really wanted to like you and learn from you as a therapist but this was absolutely terrible .. and I can assure you this was extremely retraumatizing and gaslighting for her. You guys didn’t talk AT ALL about her needs in this relationship and the reasons this is so hard for her to be in this situation where her partner completely disconnects and goes to other women and moves into a separate apartment. Wow .. I literally can’t believe what I just witnessed. Total garbage session. Very very Abusive and one sided. 🤮

So what does bring us back?

I know the world is filled with snakes and Scorpions, if I give my hand to help, my army may be chopped off but still i will put my faith in humanity and be a good man because I am courageous enough to trust and get cheated and betrayed but i will not lose my integrity.

What if the man is still an animated little boy, still quite confused about his feelings, a long time, real good player and a good man, deep down inside? There is a glimmer of hope!

This relationship needs to end, this guy is a total narcissist. Tell her to run.

Finding the "good man"...many are passed by on dating apps because not all of them are 6 feet tall, have lots of money, and movie star looks.

I love this!!

i will always be a confused man.

I’m a playa 🤣

If you don’t want the bad types of men, as your boyfriend, go date a woman☝️

I like at 26:51 where the councelor laughs. Its like he said: well thank you, im glad I could help.

Y'all grow up I got a Libra BOYZZZZ YES IM NOT EITHER

Ah I love that he comes up with business ideas. I’m the same. I love people that do this!

Definitely met one that is a mix of the first 3 of these types of men 😂😢 Love the expression on the confused man's face 😂

The good man / nice guy is what women say they want, yet even when they find one they choose the player and end up single moms who wish they had stayed with the nice guy

This is an interesting technique. almost a storming and performing tactic. The man seems to think he is not thinking about himself yet he was selfish enough to have relationships with multiple people. I THINK CERTAIN NEEDS WERE MET.??? It was great to see them finally see that the people they most needed were each other Thanks Dr. Hart that was probably an interesting case for you.

Good stuff doc

eeeeek!

These are NOT TYPES but PHASES of man. It takes a GOOD WOMAN to endure trough evolution.

Gay video

This is most probably the best way to a better relationship or Marraige. Thanks you

great session!

wow this was a great session..i really felt the emotions when the guy wen he was repeating the words to her

Amen!

Wow, a little perspective is good. I’m great full that my spouse and I do not have this problem. We definitely have problems though!

Katherine lacks some self respect and self esteem. There are some layers of anxious attachment / codependency in her communication style. She unconsciously uses her language and emotions (like crying fits) in an attempt to get her intimacy needs met. This confuses the dynamic because her partner is unsure how to get at what the real problem is, he senses that in some way he is being manipulated. Not in a malicious way, but manipulated nonetheless. This inability to get at the clear problem and the sense that he has not been accepted for who he is (i.e. she wants him to "change" so she can feel better) has caused him to turn inward to self protect from being a "failure" as a partner which he seems to value. There is a sense that she is "chasing" him which on the surface seems cute but actually is slightly disrespectful. The good thing is that these people clearly love each other. But there is a fear that permeates the interaction that feels like a wall between them. The fear being of hurting the other with what might actually be true. For her the therapy might be to build her self esteem and let go completely of the hope that her husband will ever change and the fantasy that her needs will ever be truly met by him, or anyone for that matter. That instead of stating an issue and then immediately laughing right after to try and "protect his feelings", she states her feelings, lets it hit him however it does, and lets go of trying to control or preserve the sense of Okayness between them. For him, the work may be learning to express his fear of failure, feelings, weak sides, or even dissatisfaction with her as a partner out loud instead of sublimating internally in the form of shame. That's my take, would love to hear anyone else's thoughts.

One of the best video on RUclips

This was kinda painful to watch, he was assuming SO much about her and being totally condescending, oh she is irrational oh I know women's problems are silly and dumb but they experience them so we should be understanding! In her place I'd feel invalidated and cornered

The woman clearly wants a monogamous relationship and this session was about this man’s “needs” AKA lack of boundaries and consideration for her. Based off what she has said, she’s been in relationships where she is people-pleasing and not speaking out HER needs and truth. Which is why she has ended up with someone who is triggering more of that people-pleasing and disregard for herself.

I’m actually okay with being still single currently. But if I ever do meet a guy, I want him to treat me right and treat me like a queen. Someone who isn’t racist, sexist, or in any kind of disrespect.

Im in the confused set 😀

this is mind blowing. that s the kind of guidance my partner and I would need.

The man is manipulating her generosity. She is not able to draw sharp boundaries and allows his "needs" to call the shots. She wants a monogamous relationship, period.

I hope I could find a good man...

Good video, until the Good Man part. This version of a good man is like a wet rag, a nice guy; bending to every whim of a woman; someone who makes the woman the center-piece of his life.

Women really believe this sht??😭😭

WOW you should get an award for this session

very nice your videos and talking

I fall under confused

Thank you for sharing✨💐 🙏🏻💐✨